It’s in our inner dialogue. Sometimes we don’t even notice that we are doing it. It’s often embarassing when we do it in front of others and when we don’t follow through on our actions. Yes, that’s right, “shoulding!” How many times a today have you “should” on yourself or even on someone else?
Inspire Moment #46 is to encourage you to Stop All the “Shoulding.” “I should be doing…” “I shouldn’t have said…” It’s a tough habit to break, but you can. Ok, so how do you stop it? First you have to be aware that you are doing it to begin with. Start to notice your “inner thoughts” and be mindful of what you are saying to yourself and how you are making others feel by “shoulding” on them.
It’s not very nice to should on someone else, so why are you going to should on yourself? Remember Inspire Moment #46 and live it out. Take action and start TODAY to Stop All the “Shoulding!”