Most of this world seems to be more concerned with being Socially Accepted (fitting in, gaining the approval of others) than being Self-Accepting (embracing your true self with all of your unique imperfections). Well, it doesn’t have to be this way for you.
Think about it this way…what if you re-frame how you look at your imperfections and choose to embrace all of you? And really, why are we so concerned with what the average person out there thinks of us anyway?
You can make the choice each morning to be Self-Accepting by taking off the façade and just being you. That might be scary, but the more you practice being you, the more natural and comfortable it will feel.
God created you just the way you are, perfectly imperfect. What a gift! Life is a gift and it’s what you make of it. When I choose to let go and embrace my imperfections to make the choice to be Self-Accepting, I can tell you, it’s absolutely freeing! You can “test it out” for yourself today and it starts with letting go of what other people think, letting go of trying to gain the approval of others, and letting go of trying to be someone you aren’t.
Below are four statements that can help you feel more Self-Accepting. Speak these throughout the day and see how it feels…
- I am Perfect just the way I am.
- I am choosing to be Self-Accepting.
- I was designed this way for a reason.
- I really am Perfect just the way that I am!
You get to make a choice each morning and it’s up to you!
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How do you find a Life Coach who inspires you? Welcome to Inspire Moment #111.
Could you benefit from assistance with any of these Life Challenges?
- Need help with goal setting/identifying your next step in life
- Work too much or know someone who does
- Desire more balance between your work & personal life
- Seeking change or facing a transition
- Need help motivating yourself/family/team/staff
- Has life become all about work/kids/sports/hobbies
- Focused on pleasing/taking care of others and not yourself
What do Life Coaches do?
Life Coaches offer a range of services and can help you in many ways including: help you make positive life changes, set goals and lay out a strategy for reaching them; gain a fresh perspective and outlook on your current circumstances; improve your work/life balance, increase confidence/assertiveness and so much more.
How do I find a Life Coach?
- Begin by asking friends, co-workers, or anyone you trust if they know or have worked with a Life Coach.
- Search Google by entering Life Coach and write in one of the challenges you are facing such as “work life balance.”
- Communicate with each potential Coach to get a feel for him or her on the phone.
To learn more about Life Coaching and how it can benefit you, please contact me here and I will be happy to help you.
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Does your life need to be resuscitated? Do you need to be revived and brought back to living a full life? One way to feel the jolt is to change up your surroundings.
Step #1 – Get out of Dodge!
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As I walked on the beach early this morning close to the ocean I noticed a long path of footprints in front of me. They were going in a straight line. There was only that one trail at first, but as I kept taking steps forward another path came into the picture and intersected with the original trail, and then took its own course into the ocean. There weren’t any people in sight. It was in the quietness of this morning staring at the two different paths that Inspire Moment #100 hit me, Footprints.
We are all moving in a direction. Sometimes we don’t know where we are headed and other times we know exactly where we are going. A couple questions for you to ponder are 1) What is leading you in your life? 2) What is tugging at your heart for you to go one way or the other? We are all on a different path and my last question for you is this, when your journey isn’t turning out the way that you envisioned it to be, would you trust something or someone to lead you along a different way? A way, a path, that just feels like it fits for you.
The inspiration behind Inspire Moment #100 is to encourage you to take some rest this week and to think about what is leading you. Think about what is important to you on this journey. You are making Footprints every day so if you aren’t going in the direction that you planned, trying opening up and intersecting with a new path to help get you on your way.
Know that along your journey people will come into your path, your life, for a just a couple steps or maybe for a couple seasons. They bring something to your journey. They could bring comfort. They could bring support. They may bring hardship. They could bring negativity. They should bring love. They might just bring you joy.
The key is to make a strong Footprint in your life every day because the journey that you’re on does have a direction, you just have to trust it and be a good passenger.
How do you want your eggs? I’m sure we have all been asked that question before at breakfast. Maybe you like them scrambled, over-hard, sunny-side up, or over-easy.
Now ask yourself that same question but replace the word eggs, with life. How you do want your life? Scrambled, over-hard, over-easy, or sunny-side up?
Inspire Moment #99 is to help bring happiness to you today and suggest the Sunny-Side Up way for life. If life is over-hard or scrambled for you right now, Sunny-Side Up could just be the approach to take. If life seems way over-easy and you need more motivation or balance in your life, Sunny-Side Up could be just the answer for you.
Here a few suggestions on how to begin living Sunny-Side Up…
Try different things in life. Example- Maybe the scrambled eggs you got at that diner weren’t that good, so instead of ordering the same dish the next time you go do something different and order Sunny-Side Up. Try something different in your life today. It could be very simple.
Be open to life and don’t be afraid to ask. Example-Maybe you already like Sunny-Side Up eggs but you don’t feel full when you are done and it doesn’t taste as flavorful of a dish anymore. Usually there are some potatoes or bread on your dish to dip into the yolk, but lately it’s just been the eggs at the diner. Next time you’re there be open to ask for a side of bread or more potatoes. Don’t be afraid to ask! You never know unless you ask. You could even be open to spicing it up by putting some hot sauce on those eggs. Test out something new and see how it sits with you. Try to be open to life and all the different results you will feel when you try new ways. Remember, you can’t experience what you don’t know.
Just like you have a choice on how you want your eggs cooked, you also can make a choice on how you want to live your life. Ready. Set. Go…for Sunny-Side-Up!
Remember when you were a kid you had to get a permission slip to go on a school field trip? Maybe sometimes you would get one from your mom or dad to take a different bus home with a friend or to have another friend’s parent pick you up after school? Remember those days…when you got the approval to take some time and do something fun, something different, something you needed to do?
Inspire Moment #98 is about your Permission Slip in life now. It’s often hard to give ourselves the permission to take a break from the busy life most of us lead. The approval to know that it’s ok to go out and have some fun during the week or to stay in and rest, to take time off from work for a vacation, or go out to lunch instead of staying in having a working lunch in the office or simply just taking time to eat lunch! Why are we so hard on ourselves?
We had to get a Permission Slip when we were younger and so it gets your Coach thinking that maybe some of us still need a Permission Slip to do things in our life today. If you struggle with that then it’s time to “Flip the Switch™” in your mind and create your Permission Slip. Please keep reading for a suggested action step on where you can start.
Could your Permission Slip be a reminder on your phone? If so, what does it say? How often do you see it? Could is be something you write out on an index card that says “Permission Slip?” Is it a check mark you put in your calendar that allows you permission twice a week to do “those things” to bring you back in balance? If so, how do you remember to check it off? Take an Inspire Moment now to think about what action step you will take today or next week to remember to give yourself a Permission Slip.
Because allowing yourself to do what you need to do in order to feel truly in balance with who you are on the inside is the most important authorization you can give yourself in life.
There will be times in our journey that we will feel unsure of what the next step is to help us reach our goals in life. Whether it in our career, our personal life, the steps to pursue our dreams, etc., it can feel overwhelming and often times we don’t take a step at all and get stuck in one spot…and for a long time. I have been there before! Are you familiar with that feeling? Well, Inspire Moment #97 is about Jogging in Place and I want to motivate you today to keep moving, even if it’s jogging in one spot for a long time, instead of completely stopping in your tracks.
So let me paint this picture…imagine you are off on a run or a brisk walk this afternoon. You have a great pace going, heart rate is up and you’re feeling good. You see up ahead a crossroad and so you start to think about which way you want to turn before you get there. You know your options are that you can step and turn left or you can step and turn right. Simple. Maybe you realize as you get closer that you are unfamiliar with the area and so your pace begins to slow down. You feel that you want to stop in your tracks because you don’t know what decision to make. At that moment is where I want to motivate you to “Flip the Switch™” in your head and use Inspire Moment #97 to keep Jogging In Place instead of stopping in your tracks. Did you know that Jogging in Place is also an option? You know you don’t always have to make the decision right then and now. Maybe you aren’t ready! And you know what? That’s okay! Maybe you need to jog in place for awhile and think things through until you feel confident to take your next step in the run, in life, at work, etc.
Whether you are on a run/brisk walk, in your professional life or personal life the goal is to keep moving, even if it’s in the same spot. Don’t let your mental pace stop because you don’t know the right decision, the next move, the perfect plan, etc. The goal is to keep your pace. Get it, YOUR pace! That could mean on that run that you jog in one spot to keep your heart rate up. It could mean at work that you assess all the options (keep moving) instead of just throwing in the towel and giving up on leading the project. It could mean in your personal life to test out that new thing, idea, location you want to move to, etc (keep moving) instead of throwing your idea in the garbage and forgetting about it. It could mean continuing to strengthen and condition your mindset (keep moving) even though life is great and no curve balls have come your way.
It’s better to keep Jogging in Place without a clear sense of when your next step will be taken, than to stop in your tracks and then have no clue where you are going. Keep your head up and keep up your pace!